Black Women All Alone – Explore Interracial Dating – Poem

Sports figures and the media have downplayed the black woman thus contributing to an increase of lonely single women. This negative image has also led to black women spending too much time sitting around talking about the men they don’t have or the men that mistreat them. They need to spend more time thinking about the men that do appreciate them and all of their great qualities. Some have even turned to overeating, anger, jealously and depression. Others have tried to make the changes that will attract the black man only to be used, abused and disrespected. They have lost interest in focusing on being that beautiful black woman that they are. Black women should widen out in their choices because men of other races find them attractive and can make great partners.
All races should be free to love and share with all of mankind. Everyone deserves to be happy. Find your joy and happiness in diversity. This poem is to encourage black women to recognize their inner and outer beauty and to open their minds and hearts to interracial dating.

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Black Women All Alone

Yes, we are strong black women of color,
And we love and support our black brother.

We need time and attention just like the rest,
We strive each day to survive and do our best.

It is evident that we have been abandoned by men,
They don’t appreciate all we do over and again.

Is it our hair, our skin, our ability to be strong,
We struggle each day to look good and belong.

We straighten, weave and glue on synthetic nails and hair,
They pass by us as if we’re nothing, don’t even look or stare.

I encourage my black sisters to be natural and just be you,
Our black men are deceived and are quite confused.

It is real, we’re alone and the day has arrived,
Even our brothers aren’t helping the black woman survive.

Is it the novelty of choice that leads them astray?
Or is a just a new day and their minds are blinded by the white ray.

No, I am not jealous or envious of their choice,
I am just alone and am expressing my voice.

I cannot deny myself or even you sitting there alone,
All women want to be accepted no matter what the skin tone.

Yes, it’s okay to cry a little and sing the blues,
Just remember it’s the black man that’s going to lose.

We’ve tolerated a lot from centuries long ago,
What a crying shame our black brothers kicked the sisters so low.

Among men of this earth, we must go it alone without a strong muscle,
Take life by the reins, muster up strength to fight and hustle.

Our ancestors would be proud to know we didn’t crumble or take flight,
They would cheer us on to be strong through this tough fight.

Yes, black women are alone but only to a degree,
Our maker will look after us and one day we’ll realize we’re free.

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Why Interracial Dating Now Scares Me. What Is Up?

Interracial Dating!! Is it love, or just infatuation? Is someone rebelling against convention, or family? Is someone insecure or just rejected by his or her own race? What about economic motives, is it strictly sexual? Now do not get me wrong, some people do love each other in truth, but from my experiences, it is not so clear anymore.

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Some females of another race explained to me that they liked x guys because they are manly. Is not that a form of prejudice, applying a label to all people by trait? I do not know I am just combing through my emotions. How many labels like this do we know?

I have heard people speculate that certain women date y races because their own race finds then unattractive. Is this true, or do these commentators use their beauty standards to classify other people’s desirability?

I happen to have some smart, attractive and good looking friends from other races, and I always notice the resentful stares I get as I escort them to the train station or the grocery store, I wouldn’t dream of anything because I would have to go to confession.

What about the money factor, athletes?

Alternatively, is it that people always have a different understanding of race relations? look at it from this point, some people discourage inter racial dating because they have had bad historical experiences These humans are not hateful at all, but they believe that life is easier if your mother and wife can speak the same language or maybe share the same values and customs.

I do not know, I think that my experiences have taught me that you should love, but this whole interracial dating monster now scares me.

Too much hidden under the surface. Or I am just a fool.